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GO with the Flow…

Life is full of surprises; go-with-the-flow…

T’is the season; but it is never the ‘Norman Rockwell’ scene in real life. Our society and expectations of the holidays can easily become a disappointment, time-and-time again. 

I remember one of ‘those years’ as a single mom, working retail around the clock. I tried to nix the family dinner for my own sanity, and then, I had a big problem with everyone anyways!

Why is there so MUCH pressure from society to have the ‘best holiday EVER’? The stressful and guilt-driven actions all collided when our expectations don’t match with others. Does that mean we have to work harder to ‘do better’ next year?

Regarding gifts, I respect people’s space. I often gift items that can be consumed: eaten (food and wine), burned (candles or yule logs) or enjoyed (flowers and plants). Therefore, I don’t add to anyone’s clutter.

Considering we have the option to spread out these celebrations; we can take pressure off meals and chaos. In fact, we can cultivate a family outing or dinner -at any time of the year!

Last year, my niece was invited to six holiday meals within a few days! She was trying to keep everyone happy: mother’s family, father’s family, stepfather’s family, boyfriend’s parents, auntie’s house, and I can’t remember the last one. Wow! Talk about stressful! In addition, where is the enjoyment for the new couple?

Whether it be a special occasion such as birthday, anniversary, Mother’s day, a full moon or any auspicious date …. I’d like you, dear readers, to ‘treat yourself’ to the BEST experience you can for yourself.

To evaluate life’s milestones, we need to be quiet. Pontificate upon the blessings and dynamics in your life. As we grow older, we become wiser, and we can lead others. ~The next generation can inherit anger and resentment, or guidance and reassurance.

We can only change and enjoy what goes on inside. We can’t control people, their travel arrangements or comments from the in-laws; just let it go!

What we can change is the way we embrace the changing seasons of life. I know this is a new idea for many, but it may be time to let go of some expectations:

• Take care of YOU; rest, eat and be merry.
• Do what you can, lovingly.
• Delegate what you can; and then, let it go.
• Accept and enjoy whomever shows up; and don’t judge.
• Sit back and take a ‘snapshot’ of life; this is YOUR LIFE!
• Have the courage to be the yin (calm) in the middle of yang (holiday prep).

Taking care of YOU is the BEST WAY to enjoy your celebrations and the family chaos. You CAN make this season the BEST EVER; Just Go-with-the-flow…

I just love it when everything matches; chocolates on a table runner! LOL

May you, your family and friends, flow with peace and harmony among the pressures of this time of year.

 Warmth and love, Kathryn

*** Kathryn Wilking is an Author, Home Stager and Feng Shui Consultant. She rearranges your space to move chaos into prosperity. Kathryn delivers ‘Practical Solutions for Life’ through The ONE-ROOM Rescue™ and unique personality profiling with the Fantastic 5 Elements!

Feng Shui can see through clutter. Receive monthly tips and free insight from Kathryn, with the Art of Balance on the website: kathrynwilking.com Kathryn is an active Professional Member of the International Feng Shui Guild, available for private consultations, innovative talks and workshops. kathryn@kathrynwilking.com 

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About Kathryn Wilking

Author, Home Stager, Feng Shui Consultant

Kathryn has inspired women for more than a decade to take charge of their lives; arranging their environment, home and office, to support a positive, prosperous lifestyle. She provides informative tips and talks to organizations and small groups through her Facebook Group and Blog Posts and recorded podcasts. Contact her today for more info about bringing the practical application of Feng Shui into your space.

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